I wrote the blog ‘ I wrote the blog ‘She Will Never Be In My Life Again But She Will Always Be His Mom.’ About meeting, this great person in class and the first time we hung out he put his dirty laundry on the table in Applebee’s. He told me everything from his son, Michael to all of the dumb things he has ever done in life. We have been hanging out more and more. So a lot more stuff has been coming up. Of course, Michael is with us most of the time. Kevin told me that he has never dated before or at least in a long long time. He has been asking me all sorts of question about my past but not prying into my past. Therefore, I finally had the courage to ask him when the last time he has had sex is. Mind you, he asked me an orgasm question, so I thought why not. He told me that it has been 2 to 3 months. I asked you did not date her. In addition, he replied that I am the first girl he has dated in a long time. Flattered, I said oh my. The reply I got to that was Yes, I would like to have sex with you, only when you are comfortable. I have never been so embarrassed before. I could not believe he said that. The next 3 hours we talked a bout sex. And he kept telling me that he would only do it if I was comfortable with it. Therefore, I had to ask how long he would wait, and he said as long as it takes. And that he knows he is more experiences than I am, and he would take it slow. That is when it hit me; I have totally fallen for this person, who is a dad. I have not kissed him, not held his hand or even hugged him. However, that does not matter. He is very respectful and keeps a foot away from me at all times. This sometimes gets on my nerves. Because I am not going to lie, I want him to kiss me, to hold me. But I am very much shy. He keeps saying that he does not want to scare me. What ever that means? I do not even know.
What does it mean when he says he does not want to scare me? Has anyone ever said that to you?
Sounds like you have found someone to keep your mind off the past. Which is a good thing, however you must keep in your mindset that he also has a suitcase of things in his past. It is perfectly fine to be shy about sex or relationships, as long as he really is willing to go at your pace. I would take it slow purely because like you say, you don't really know a lot about him.
Maybe I'm just a little bias but it would be very weird being a young girl in a situation with a boyfriend who already has a kid. Granted it lets you get a feel for how a kid is but the real question is are you really ready for that? Most adolescences are not really ready for/having a kid in their lives. That is just something you have to think about for yourself.
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Sounds like you have found someone to keep your mind off the past. Which is a good thing, however you must keep in your mindset that he also has a suitcase of things in his past. It is perfectly fine to be shy about sex or relationships, as long as he really is willing to go at your pace. I would take it slow purely because like you say, you don't really know a lot about him.
Maybe I'm just a little bias but it would be very weird being a young girl in a situation with a boyfriend who already has a kid. Granted it lets you get a feel for how a kid is but the real question is are you really ready for that? Most adolescences are not really ready for/having a kid in their lives. That is just something you have to think about for yourself.
As for dirty laundry, tell him to wash it!
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